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THE POWER OF HONOR; THE CURSE OF DISHONOR
Pastor Francis Frangipane
February 27th, 2000 Sunday message
email: RiverofLifeMailer@InChristsImage.org
Among all in his era, Noah was the most godly. He alone was considered by
the Almighty, blameless. In a time when terrible wrath was about to
unfurl, Noah alone found favor with the Lord. Consider this man Noah and
what he experienced: Aware that the end of his world was at hand, he faithfully
preached repentance for over one hundred years, yet his words converted no one.
His eyes beheld the terrible descent of the wrath of God; his ears heard the
terrifying cries, the final cries, of an entire civilization. His mind
experienced the horrifying destruction of every man, woman and child outside the
ark.
WHAT NIGHTMARES!
What burden does such an experience create upon the human soul? What
nightmares? We don't know how Noah processed the catastrophic end of he
world, but here's what we do know: After the flood, Noah began mankind's journey
anew. He farmed and planted a vineyard. From the harvest he produced
juice, which fermented into wine. We don't know if this was the first time
he, or any man, tasted the effects of wine, but we do know that he drank it and
it made him so drunk that he collapsed in his tent. The great man of God lay unconscious and naked, in
a drunken stupor.
A RIGHTEOUS PREACHER HAD FALLEN
Here was a righteous preacher who, for whatever reason, had fallen short of his
own high standards. Into this scene comes Ham, one of his three sons.
Ham entered Noah's tent and saw the shameful state his father was in.
Then, Ham reported the scene to his two brothers. Instead of silently,
discreetly covering his father's shame, he sought to expose it. His
brothers, Shem and Japheth, the Scriptures tell us, took raiment and, walking
backward with the sheet on their shoulders, they covered Noah with it.
Keep this point in mind: Ham dishonored his father by seeking to expose his
shame; Shem and Japheth honored their father by covering his weakness.
Your future and the future of your children is attached to how well you
understand the value of
honor and the curse that follows a dishonoring spirit.
HONOR AND DISHONOR
I want to talk to you about honor and dishonor. From our cultural
inception, Americans have been a bold, and often defiant, people. Our
founding fathers, reacting from the tyranny of kings and bishops, dreamed of
making this land free of authoritarianism. The swing away from honor
thrust us, however, into an opposite error: dishonor. Consequently, because we
have learned to dishonor the civil and
religious institutions of life, we have become the home of lawlessness and
disorder; we are experiencing the breakdown of the family, the church, and
society at large.
America has become one huge reaction to tradition; even wholesome traditions
that provide peace, stability and respect to the human condition are considered
enemies to our nature.
DON'T TREAD ON ME
Recall: several early American state flags displayed a serpent coiled around a
staff. The inscription read, "Don't tread on me." This
brazen banner actually identified those who looked to it as a standard against
any rule, even the rule of Christ Himself.
Most nations possess a singular focal point that epitomizes their culture.
For the Asian nations, honor and respect preside over their societies; for
Germanic nations, discipline and obedience set the standard. For America,
the central theme would be freedom and rebellion to tradition. To express
compliance or honor is considered
a weakness.
PROTEST-ANTS
Even among the early American Christians, there existed a strong independent
heart attitude. Most of our first ancestors came from
"Protestant" stock: they were "protest-ants." Not only
had they protested the errors of Catholicism, but during various eras,
Protestant denominations persecuted and protested against themselves as well. Their legacy of visible, vocal dissent as a means of change has
been structured into America's subconsciousness; this legacy defines much of our
societal chemistry. For the secular individual, to protest was to walk a
heroic, patriotic path. For the religious soul, to defy the edict of a
king or pope was courageous and noble; it was to follow the righteous pattern of the Old Testament prophets.
Thus, confrontation emerged in America as a means through which change
materialized. Certainly, there is virtue to be found in a heart that
fearlessly speaks against evil. However, "confrontational
spirituality" has been carried to an excessive extreme. It is
mainstreamed as a legitimate American form of communication, both
among the religious and non-religious alike. In America, our "right
to protest" is not just a privilege, but a moral and even spiritual
obligation; it is to be accomplished with zeal.
THE INDEPENDENT AMERICAN
So, a true American is typified as one who is his own ruler; he is independent,
and unafraid to speak his mind to anyone. Yet, to whatever degree this
confrontational attitude is esteemed a virtue in our larger society, it is
certainly not a living grace in the kingdom of God. The New Testament
Scriptures, in fact, call us to the exact opposite approach in our
relationships, where we honor and respect people. Here is what God's
word commands:
"Honor all men; love the brotherhood, fear God, honor the king. Servants,
be submissive to your masters with all respect. . ." (1
Pet 2:17-18a).
HONOR ALL MEN?
Honor all men? Honor the king? Servants be submissive with respect?
Surely this apostolic leader is not speaking to the church in America! We want
our rights! We are not afraid of any man, be he king or priest. Yes,
but the issue is not whether we are afraid; it is whether we are capable of
showing genuine honor.
There is something within us that grates at the idea of honoring people.
We say, often quite righteously, we will only honor God. We feel it is our
task to keep others humble lest their pride take over. In fact, it is our pride
that has taken over, not theirs, and it is fueled by our jealousy of another's
success.
God calls us to honor all men for the simple fact that He chose to give them
life. Jesus lived and died so sinful men could be saved. People are
precious to the Father; they are as valuable to Him as His Son. Yes, today
the person standing before you may be a sinner, but by showing honor you tell
that person that he or she is important to
the Almighty.
Some, we are called to honor for their attainments; others, we honor for their
intrinsic worth to God. Yet, the call of God is to honor all. Not
that you honor the actions of sinners, but the humanity of sinners. We are
not to worship people, as those who swoon over celebrities; but we are to show
all men honor.
WHO WILL YOU LEAD TO CHRIST? ONE YOU HAVE DISHONORED?
You cannot lead someone to Christ whom you have dishonored. You cannot
sincerely communicate the love of God if you do not respect the person to whom
you are speaking. Our tradition of dishonoring people has not come from
God. In fact, the kingdom of God emerges with a completely opposite
spirit. The kingdom is a culture graced with honor and respect for the
dignity of all people.
HONOR WITHIN THE BODY
Consider: within the body of Christ we are commanded to honor every member,
actually giving to the "unseemly parts" more abundant honor. As
stated, we are also called to "Honor all men" and also "honor the
king" (1 Peter 2:17). We are additionally required to honor the
church elders (1 Timothy 5:17); and at work, we should honor and respect those
who are our employers (1 Timothy 6:1). We are to honor widows (1 Timothy
5:3), spouses (1 Peter 3:7 & Ephesians 5:22), the unseemly (1 Corinthians
12:23-25) and the aged (Leviticus 19:32). In fact, when the gray-haired
enter a room we are told to stop talking, stand, and acknowledge with reverence
the entrance of an older individual. When was the last time that happened
in America?
The Lord himself bestows honor on people: John 12:26 says, "If anyone
serves Me, ... the Father will honor him." And Psalm 91:14-15
say, "Because he has loved Me, ... I will rescue him, and honor
him." So if the Lord has no problem honoring people, considering His
great glory, why are we so apt to dishonor each other?
TO FIX VALUE
The word "honor" in the Greek meant to fix valuation, esteem by
implication and to revere. Picture a home where the children revere their
parents and the husband and wife honor each other. We must esteem and fix
value to each other. For honor creates a spiritual buffer against the
enemy's attacks, which otherwise erode the quality of our lives.
Moreover, honor releases the power of God while dishonor greatly hinders its
expression. Jesus taught, "'A prophet is not without honor except in
his home town, and in his own household.' And He did not do many miracles
there because of their unbelief" (Matthew 13:57-58). The people of
Jesus' hometown did not honor Him, and their lack of honor, Jesus called,
"unbelief." In other words, when we dishonor a man or woman of
God, we shut down the power.
The Ability To Advance In Life Paul reminds us of the commandments. He
writes, "Honor your father and mother (which is the first commandment with
a promise), that it may be well with you..." (Eph 6:2-3).
WHY CURSE HAM'S SON?
Let's return to the story about Noah. When Ham exposed his father, Noah
cursed the son of Ham, Canaan. Why didn't Noah curse Ham instead of Ham's
son? Noah knew that, as Ham had been to him, so Canaan would be to Ham.
Noah's curse was actually profound. He said Canaan would be "a
servant of servants" (see Gen 9:25). Why? Because if you can't
honor an imperfect leader, you will never advance in life. You will always
be a slave.
You see, there are no leaders other than imperfect leaders. Your boss,
your pastor or teacher or mayor or father or mother are all imperfect.
When we expose them to humiliation or dishonor by telling others of their
weaknesses, it brings their curse upon us. We will never advance in life
with such an attitude.
"BUT I'LL FEEL LIKE A YES MAN!"
To be successful, you need to be able to submit to leaders who are imperfect
without dishonoring them. You say, "If I do that, I will feel like a
hypocrite, a 'yes' man." If you don't show honor, you are already a
hypocrite. For a true Christian esteems and respects people; you don't
have to trust them, but you must honor and respect
them.
YOU MAY STILL HAVE GOOD ADVICE AND REVELATION
Now this doesn't mean you shouldn't have concerns when you see a problem.
You may indeed have good advice or even a revelation to share that can help your
leader. But don't open the door to dishonoring leaders, especially in the
church! If you see a problem, don't follow Ham's example. Don't go
telling your brothers; instead, cover the situation in love. Follow the
procedure Jesus gives us in Matthew 18, remaining respectful and humble as you
seek to bring an end to sin in a person's life.
Perhaps you are poor and unable to advance in life. It is possible that
you have a curse hindering you due to a dishonoring spirit you received from
your parents. Today, that curse can be broken. Ask God to forgive
you and your parents for not relating with honor to imperfect authority.
Learn to pray for those over you, covering them with the blood of Christ,
interceding that they will be protected from the enemy.
YOUR LEADER'S FLAWS
Remember, cursed is everyone who seeks to expose a leader's flaws! The
generations of Ham became slaves. How you relate to the imperfections of
your superiors determines not only your future, but also the future of your
children and your children's children. Do they hear you complain about
your boss? Do they listen when you
criticize your pastor? Is a curse being passed on to them when they are
forced by proximity to hear you bad mouth other leaders? Do you see this?
You are actually teaching them how to NOT succeed in life. A dishonoring spirit
will cause them to remain poor, frustrated and outside the realm of the blessed
and prosperous.
LIKE PARENTS, LIKE CHILDREN
Right now, your children are patterning their lives after you. From you
they are learning how to deal with the imperfections of life. Will they become
bitter and angry at life's structure of authority? Or will they be free to
relate to imperfect authorities over them, and do so with honor? Are you
breeding generations of slaves or
generations of free men and women?
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